UNWANTED PREGNANCY
Critically I am not supposed to
write about this topic, but the way these words are put side by side annoys me
that I just could not help it. This topic is typically an oxymoron ---where two
opposite words are placed side by side---,but the words forming this topic are
not directly opposite but they are ‘the nearest relative to the opposite!.’Surprised!.
Pregnancy is a stage in life ‘pre eventing’ the existence of a
new being. Pregnancy is a sign of good and healthy reproductive life. Pregnancy
is good, a fact I am not supposed to stretch more than an inch before it is
agreed because it is an axiom. When a couple after some number of years
is not able to bring a child into this earth, it is considered a MAJOR cultural, spiritual and sometimes
may be physical problem. While married couple are battling to get pregnant
the unmarried are trying to remove their pregnancies! The term unwanted
pregnancy is less common among the married where the term pregnancy should only
be mentioned but the unmarried are now more familiar with the word
as if it is a feature of maturity! ‘The
only way a blessing can turn to a curse is only if that blessing has been
cursed.’
Pregnancy has to be wanted and ought
to be joyful. You need to hear couples discuss about their unborn child but
this is not so about the underage girls who get pregnant before they are
supposed to. They regard this God given blessing as a curse, stigma and worse
of it all as ‘unwanted'. Hence they
terminate it. The problem now is after saying the pregnancy is unwanted, when it is later wanted they can no longer find it.... Oh what a pain! They play about with
all parts of their bodies open, making it cheap for the boys to play and trample on. Then when the actual result of their actions comes out
they say it is unwanted... What a hypocrisy! Just like saying a
footballer after scoring a goal says that the goal is UNWANTED, and he does not want the goal, so that he goes about
doing anything for that goal not to count!. Is that ever possible? If he
doesn't want to score any goal then he should not be a footballer at the first
place. So if you don't want to get
pregnant don't have sex.#fact, otherwise whenever you have sex prepare for
pregnancy, so also all players in the pitch are all prepared to score a goal! SIMPLE AS ABC. I don't know how these ‘chickens
and ‘dogs think when they play with sex, that they can't actually get
pregnant!!! Why don't you stop doing the things that lead to pregnancy!. FORNICATION! It is an addiction and a sin. Pharmaceutically
and spiritually speaking, contraceptives are dangerous and they have heavy side
effects in which death is not excluded. Let us join hands together to
end fornication. We have no other moral
option than to abstain from sex until you are married. Period!
The phrase unwanted pregnancy is
from the pit of hell. It is not suppose to be or happen. Nothing about getting pregnant is
unwanted. Instead of saying a pregnancy is not wanted, it is
fornication that is unwanted! REMEMBER
YOU WERE ONCE A FETUS. Hence just concentrate on your chastity instead of
putting yourself in a position where you see your unborn child as unwanted.
A pregnancy removed is a rejection of God's divine favor. To get pregnant is not a bad thing, even after committing fornication,
as far you repent of it, also
pregnancy is not a punishment for fornication. #fact. God has a plan for all
babies that enter this earth. FORNICATION
is the sin not pregnancy. What should be unwanted is fornication and
not its absolute result- pregnancy. We often hear how rich couples who
can't procreate go about to buy babies to help their reproach. I just hope the babies you are rejecting now;
you find them when you need them!
In conclusion, some young girls and
boys after fornication confirm that they are not faced with imminent pregnancy,
would say THANK GOD! Thank God? First you fornicate and the
last time I checked, fornication is still sin and now you are saying thank
God!. That is the highest level of ‘hypercritical foolishness. Change!
be warned! Abstinence is still the best
kind of contraceptive. Don't deceive yourself. Not until you remove a
pregnancy you are not murderer.
INSTEAD OF
UNWANTED PREGNANCY IT SHOULD BE UNWANTED FORNICATION.
PREGNANCY
IS STILL A BLESSING AND A PRIVILEGE AND IT SHOULD REMAIN SO.
