VALUE SYSTEM

We all run into different people on a daily basis. What we make of them is what they become. But there are some basic truths about relationships we ought to know.

No matter how costly you think you are, you will not be priced more than what the other person can afford. By that I mean; ‘never blame anyone for taking you cheaply’. In every failed expectation in a relationship a large chunk of the blame usually goes to the person who feels he/she is the victim. You should not blame a tomato seller for giving you N2, 000 for a golden necklace. She does know that the necklace is very costly but her pettiness, which is not her fault, cannot allow her afford a higher price. So, instead of running amok because of her low price tag, go to someplace else where your golden necklace would be valued.

Here’s a story on the value of life. Enjoy.

A little boy went to his old grandpa and asked, "What's the value of life?"

The grandpa gave him one stone and said, "Find out the value of this stone, but don't sell it."

The boy took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what its cost would be.

The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, "You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone."

The boy apologized and said that the grandpa has asked him not to sell it.

He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. "What could be the value of this stone?" he asked the vegetable seller. The seller saw the shiny stone and said, "Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone." The boy again apologized and said he can't sell it.

Further ahead, he went into a jewelry shop and asked the value of the stone.

The jeweler saw the stone under a lens and said, "I'll give you 50 million for this stone." But the boy refused to sell. The boy explained that he can't sell the stone.

Further ahead, the boy saw a precious stone's shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.

When the precious stone's seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby. "From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?" he asked. "Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won't be able to purchase this priceless stone.

Stunned and confused, the boy returned to the grandpa and told him what had happened. "Now tell me what the value of life is, grandpa?"

Grandpa said, "The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweler & the Precious Stone's Seller explains the value of our life...

You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people will value you based on their financial status, their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk taking ability. But don't fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true

value." Respect yourself. You are Unique. No one can replace you.

No matter who we meet. Male or female. Married or single. Benevolent or stingy. Cheerful or sad; No matter their predisposition, they either add to our value or subtract from us. Hence the more reason we are to know which relationship to foster or the one to starve to death. Stay tuned. We will be right back.

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